Sandra's Heavenly Corner

Serenity Prayer:
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.

Welcome to my page. My name is Sandra. I'm a single BBW (big beautiful woman) and I live in Vallejo, CA. I'm an elementary school teacher. I am newly engaged and have no kids, but want them very much eventually. I love working with children. I have numerous hobbies and interests, many of them will be covered in more detail on this page. I collect angels, surround myself with them. I do alternative healing. I collect rubber stamps and enjoy crafts. I have a niece and two nephews I adore. I love comedy clubs and movies. I enjoy dining out as well as cooking. Mexican is my favorite. I love to flirt and I'm a hopeless romantic. I enjoy travel and shopping and love a good game of Blackjack. I'm big on communication and think I'm open minded and interesting. The rest of the page will tell you more about the things I find important. I hope you enjoy the information and the links. Please sign my guestbook and let me know that you stopped by.

I love angels. I always have. I collect them and surround myself with them. I have angel blankets, pillows, pictures, wall hangings, keychains, frames, jewelry, and knick knacks. I've been collecting them since even before they became so popular. They comfort me. I feel guided and protected by the presence of angels. I have no doubt that they exist. The word angel means "God's Messenger" and I was once given a life saving message by what I know to be my Guardian Angel. I am a believer. I think our society is in need of some faith and hope. We see so much negativity all around us. Angels remind us of love, fun,and protection. They are a positive force in an increasingly negative environment. The t.v. show "Touched by an Angel", one of my favorites, has become a hit due to it's positive message and touching storylines. It is a comforting thought to know that I am being watched,loved,and protected from above at all times, especially when I'm feeling down. Angels remind me to have faith, to love, and to laugh. I am so thankful that they are a part of my life. The Internet is full of angel sites. Here are some of my favorites.

Angel Links:

Varian's AngelDreams - one of the best sites I've seen.
Angels for Peace - lots of angel links to explore.
7th Heaven Angel Shop & More - great site, lots of fun stuff.
Touched By An Angel - the t.v. show web site.
Angel's Angels CyberCards - send a free Angel cybercard to someone you love.

"Why can't I attract men like crazy instead of crazy men?"

I consider myself a romantic (maybe even a hopeless one). I think passion and romance are important and I know that they can last. People say passion fades, and I know it can, but like any good fire it just needs stoking and rekindling. I am a very sensual person. I love candles, bubble baths, champagne, firelight, feathers, and full body massages. I believe in extended foreplay. I think touching is a basic human need (one that I can't get enough of). To me romance is about the little things you do to show you care. It doesn't have to be a dozen roses, an expensive dinner, a limo ride, fancy vacation, or diamonds. Although those things are wonderful, it can be shown through small gestures such as: a single rose, greeting cards, making dinner, a hug or kiss, saying I love you, rubbing tired feet, a phone call during the day to say I miss you, small gifts, or a massage. Romance can happen daily, it doesn't have to be saved for special occassions. Here's a great quote I found which sums up how I see romance: "Romance isn't lust or a legally binding partnership. It is the physical manifestation of love without taking your clothes off." There are tons of romance web sites. Here are some of my favorites , as well as a few poetry sites. Enjoy.

Romance Links:

Romance & More Amour! - fun page about amour.
World of Romance Links - lots of fun links to explore.
Romantic Notions - paranormal romance page.
Angelwing's Heavenly Skies - poetry page.
The Official Hopeless Romantic's Home Page(s) - for hopeless romantics such as myself!
Love and Romance Resources Galleries - also has love letters and poems.

"...And then the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." - Anais Nin

I am a BBW (big beautiful woman) and have been my entire adult life. I think I am very sexy and attractive, although not all men would think so. It's somewhat difficult being a larger person in a society that worships thin. However, I know that over 50% of American women are a size 14 or up, so really being a BBW is the norm. I was pleasantly surprised when I went online and discovered FAs. It's great to see how many men there are out there who think I'm beautiful just the way I am. I have found someone who sees my inner beauty as the most important thing, yet still lusts after my outer beauty. I am soft, curvy, and round. I take pride in myself. I dress well, smell great, and smile often. I also love lingerie and sexy clothes. I am assertive and confident. My self esteem is high. I enjoy reading BBW magazine and anything else that is fat positive. I make no excuses for my size, nor do I allow anyone to put me down. There is simply more of me to love. Here are some sites on the Internet related to being a BBW that I hope you will enjoy.

BBW Links:

Charlene's Place - my good friend's page.
The Wildside - plus size lingerie.
Barb's Large and Lovely - plus size lingerie and more.
Dimensions - Where Big is Beautiful - Dimensions Magazine online!.
Welcome to Allen's Big Beautiful World - a good size positive site.
Leather and Lace Inc. - more plus size lingerie.
BBW Today - personal ads, etc..

"People should use words as a tool, not as a weapon"

I love poetry and occasionally attempt it myself. They may be simple, but they are from the heart. Here are a few samples of my writing:

A question for only the deepest philosophers: If a man speaks in the forest and there is no woman to hear him, is he still wrong?

"We are not human beings having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings having a human experience"

My spiritual beliefs are based mostly on metaphysics. I believe there is more going on in the Universe than what we can see with our eyes. I am highly intuitive and recognize this as my sixth sense. I don't believe in every metaphysical concept, but I am open minded. I know there isn't one right way, one right answer, or one right religion. I do believe in a Supreme Being and I choose to call it God. I feel that the line between the physical world and the spiritual world is a fine line. I know that I receive support, guidance, and love from the other side on a daily basis. Some of the concepts I believe in are: soul mates, reincarnation, karma, angels, UFO's,aliens, ghosts, and psychic phenomenon. I feel connected to the Universe and know my place in it. There is a great wealth of information on the New Age on the Internet. These are a few of my favorite sites.

Metaphysical Links:

Paranormal Resources on the Web - More links.
Connections to Web Resources - links by topic.
New Age Resources Master Index - many topics to choose from.

Time is the best teacher, unfortunately it kills all of its students.

I am a holistic healing practitioner. I have been doing body work for three years now and I love it. I have a business called An Angel's Touch. It's great to be able to boost people's immunity, to help them relax, and to make them feel good. I believe in Western medicine, but I feel we need to be more responsible for our own health. There is a strong mind-body connection and we are the only one who can put it to good use. Doctors treat symptoms, not causes, and they avoid preventive care all together. There is more to being healthy than medicine can provide. We need to learn to take care of our bodies before they ever get sick. I think herbs and vitamins, as well as forms of stress relief are a good start. I believe in many types of alternative healing and health care but am involved in only three. They are: Reiki, foot Reflexology, and ear candling. Reiki is an ancient holistic system of healing involving the laying on of hands in order to balance the mind, body, and spirit. The energy induces a state of complete relaxation. Other benefits include: improved health,reduced stress, pain relief, and accelarated healing. Foot Reflexology is a holistic form of preventive health care which combines Chinese accupressure and foot massage. It stimulates over 7000 nerve endings and activates the natural healing power of the body. Benefits include: improved circulation,reduced stress,revitalized energy, a more efficient immune system, and deep relaxation. Ear candling is a simple, safe, gentle, but ancient natural method of ear hygiene. It is done by placing a special beeswax candle in the ear and lighting it. Due to the cone shape of the candle a vacuum is formed. This vacuum draws out the wax and impuritie the ear canal while stimulating energy points. It is equivalent to the doctor using a water syringe in his office to clean the ears, only better. Not only is it good hygiene and relaxing, but it also helps to prevent colds, improves hearing, clears the body of toxins, relieves tinnitus, helps post nasal drip, and regulates ear pressure. During the session a facial massage is also done. This technique is not only healthy but very relaxing as well. Some interesting links for more information on these three techniques follow.

Alternative Healing Links:

Ear Candling Supplies - informative page on ear candling.
Candella International Ear Candles - another page on ear candling.
Home of Reflexology - list of organizations and links.
The Reiki Page - very informative page on Reiki!
Reiki - Other Reiki Pages - Reiki links.
International Center for Reiki Training - everything you need to know about Reiki.

I don't suffer from insanity, I enjoy every minute of it.

A policeman was patrolling a local parking spot overlooking a golf course. He drove by a car and saw a couple inside with the dome light on. There was a young man in the driver's seat reading a computer magazine and a young lady in the back seat knitting. He stopped to investigate.

He walked up to the driver's window and knocked. The young man looked up, cranked the window down, and said, "Yes, officer?"

"What are you doing?" the policeman asked.

"What does it look like?" answered the young man. "I'm reading a magazine."

"And what is she doing?"

The young man looked over his shoulder and replied, "What does it look like? She's knitting."

"And how old are you?" the officer then asked the young man.

"I'm nineteen," he replied.

"And how old is she?" asked the officer.

The young man looked at his watch, smiled, and said, "Well, in about twelve minutes she'll be eighteen."

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An old lady is rocking away the last of her days on her front porch, reflecting on her long life, when--all of a sudden--a fairy godmother appears in front of her and informs her that she will be granted three wishes.

"Well, now," says the old lady, "I guess I would like to be really rich."

*** POOF *** her rocking chair turns to solid gold.

"And, gee, I guess I wouldn't mind being a young, beautiful princess."

***POOF *** she turns into a beautiful young woman.

"Your third wish?" asked the fairy godmother. Just then the old woman's cat wanders across the porch in front of them.

"Ooh--can you change him into a handsome prince?" she asks.

*** POOF *** there before her stands a young man more handsome than anyone could possibly imagine.

She stares at him, smitten. With a smile that makes her knees weak, he saunters across the porch and whispers in her ear:

"Bet you're sorry you had me neutered."

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One day a little boy asked his mother how old she is and she told him that little boys didn't ask ladies how old they were.

Some time later the little boy asked his mother how much she weighed and she told him that litttle boys didn't ask ladies how much they weighed.

The little boy then asked his mother why she and his daddy had gotten a divorce.

The Mother told him that little boys didn't ask ladies personal questions like that.

Later that day the little boy was playing with a friend and told the friend that his mother wouldn't tell him how old she was or how much she weighed or anything.

His friend told him that all he had to do was look on his mother's driver's license and he could find out any thing he wanted to know.

So the little boy went home and looked on his mother's driver's license and then went and told his mother he knew how old she was and told her she was 30 years old. Then he told her that he knew how much she weighed and told her she weighed 125 pounds. Then he told her he knew why she had gotten a divorce was because she got an F in sex.

I spend a lot of time online and have come across a lot of fun and interesting sites. Here are some I wanted to share that didn't fit into any of the sections above. Hope you have fun with these.

Misc. Links:

Flirting Homepage - a fun page if you like to flirt.
Select a Bouquet - send flowers online for free.
Find A Person - look for anyone in the U.S.
Trendy Magic Mysterious Rabbit #1 - cool magic trick that will amaze you.
Tarot - free tarot card readings.

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