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~ Death of a Friend ~
     Dusty wasn't our dog.  We didn't own her, but we fed her, housed her and loved her.   She belonged to a couple who live in our neighborhood.  Dusty was always the "neighborhood dog".  From the time she was not much more than a pup, she wandered the neighborhood.  Her owners left her outdoors in all kinds of weather, hot Summer sun, pouring rain and sub-zero Winter cold. It was hard to believe that the woman who owned her actually worked for a veterinarian, where she certainly saw what happens to dogs left to roam unprotected from nature and man.  How often must she have seen dogs suffering from frostbite, or covered with porcupine quills?  She certainly saw dogs who had been
poisoned, shot, and hit by cars, yet her own dog wandered loose in all kinds of weather, day and night.
     Dusty often begged to come in at a particular neighbor's house and was let in to stretch out by their wood stove, on cold days.   In October '96 we rented that house,  Dusty was here to great us when we moved in.  She would come to the front porch window and beg to come in out of the Autumn cold and rain.   We didn't have a wood stove, but the kerosene heater in our back room seemed to make her happy.  She'd walk in and head straight for the heater.  She must have been around eight years old and while she was still strong and healthy she obviously could no longer stand being out in the cold.
     She was a big yellow lab, as gentle as a kitten and definitely a family dog. Her big, brown, trusting eyes could melt your heart.  She would join us and our dog, Duke, in the living room when we watched TV and seemed thrilled to share our popcorn and the family environment.  When I came home from work at lunchtime each day, she would greet me at my car and follow me onto the porch.  Then she would actually chatter her teeth as if she were freezing and look at me expectantly, hoping to be let in.  How could any one resist her big, mournful eyes?  Once she was in she would go straight for the heater.
     In December (1997) my mother had a stroke and we brought her two dogs, Lady Ericka and Snuggles, both boxers, to live with us.  Snuggles was actually my dog, that I had to leave with my mother a few years ago when I lived in an apartment where pets were not allowed.
     Lady and Snuggles accepted that this was Duke's house but they did not accept Dusty being in it.  In past years, Dusty had often begged dog biscuits from my mother and the boxers "loudly" objected to having her around "their" house.  They now didn't want her here.  We had to let Dusty in through the back door so she could go to the heater without causing total mayhem.  Little by little the boxers got used to her being in the house but they would only put up with her as long as she stayed in the backroom.
     We would put Dusty out each night to go home and she would go, only to later wake us up during the middle of the night with her pleading barks, begging to come in out of the cold.  Jim would get up anytime from midnight to 4 in the morning and let Dusty in to lay by the heater.
     She was never any bother.  She was well behaved and easy to have around. By the time Spring came around Dusty had decided she was a member of this family.  She had slowly made her way from the back room into the kitchen and finally into the living room where she would stretch out in front of the couch.  The heater wasn't needed now, so she worked her way, a half room at a time into house.  It was only my boxer, Snuggles who had any real problem with her, and as long as Dusty didn't come too near me she put up with her.
    Little by little Dusty worked her way into the house, into our family and into our hearts.  She rarely went to her old home anymore.  Sometimes Jim would see her wander over towards her old house but her owners would chase her off so she finally stopped going home at all.
     Dusty was always here waiting in the yard or on the porch when we got home from anywhere and she'd always meet me at lunchtime and after work.
     Her owner came over to see if she was here only once, although they drove by everyday and could see her out on the porch or in the yard.  One Winter day the woman stopped and asked if she was there because she had an appointment for her Rabies shot.   I told her she was always here, that when she cried at our door every night to come in to get warm, we could hardly ignore her.  I thought after that she might keep
her in at night but Dusty was back that night and every night after that.
     Dusty finally worked her way from in front of the couch, to upstairs at night, and while the other three dogs slept in our room, she would sleep in the hall outside our bedroom door.  One night she went into the bedroom before bedtime and picked a dog pillow and got settled in ahead of the other dogs.  Then there were four dogs sleeping in the bedroom!
     She was a big dog and we affectionately called her the "Moose".  She enjoyed even the slightest bit of affection. While we keep our other three dogs in a fenced in yard, Dusty was used to roaming so we would have to let her out the front door each morning so she could go roll around out in the front yard.  She would take her morning stroll and then comeback for her breakfast.  Even Lady Ericka finally got to where she would look out the dinning room window and watch for Dusty to come back for breakfast.
     We often commented that we just could not understand how her owners could just ignore her when she was such an especially nice animal.  We could not believe that they came to get her only the one time.
     One July morning she asked to go out early like she usually did.  Jim let her out and because I had the day off, I went back to sleep.  When I got up Dusty had not come back for breakfast. She had never missed breakfast and we were worried about her, but we thought maybe she had gone home and her owners had actually let her in.  Jim drove around the our neighborhood checking to see where she was.  He didn't see her anywhere, so again we thought her owners must have let her in. She didn't come back all day or that night.  We were then very worried because if she had been let out she would have come right over.  The next day Jim went to the neighbor's to make sure she was all right.
     The woman said they had taken her and had her "Put Down".  When Jim asked "Why?" Her answer was, "Dusty hasn't been home in three months."  Then she added that she was afraid of law suits if Dusty should hurt any of the children in the neighborhood.  (That made no sense since Dusty was such a big, gentle baby of a dog and was now indoors more than she had ever been.)  Then she claimed she had to be put down because she had "hot spots" on her where she had lost some hair.  (We had been treating the two small spots and they we healing!)
     Why had they killed a beautiful, friendly dog?  We will never know or understand.  Why didn't they just  offer the dog to us?  We don't know that either and never will.
     Lady spent days looking out the window, waiting for Dusty, like she always did each morning before breakfast.  We still have a big empty place in our hearts . . . and it was never the same when I came home anymore.  Up until the time we moved in October '97, I still looked to see if Dusty was waiting for me.  I kept hoping she'll be there, even though I knew she never would. . .  and I still wonder how and why people can be so cruel to a loving animal who never harmed anyone.  She just wanted a warm place to sleep and a family who loved her.
     She had those things for a time . . now she lives forever in our hearts!                                                                                
                                                                                                                     ~laf '97~
 

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